There are a few things that I am used to now that I was not six months ago. I will now compile a list of these things.
- I do not flush toilet paper. Ever.
- I am not afraid of traffic driving on the sidewalk. (cars, scooters, vans, etc.)
- I can get home in a taxi, alone, and not get lost.
- I can order coffee, completely in English, from a person who speaks only Korean and get exactly what I want, with an extra shot of espresso, thank you very much.
- I can walk as fast and sometimes faster than the average Korean.
- I can navigate the sidewalk with minimal person-to-person collisions.
- I can travel to several places on the subway without having to pull out my map every stop.
- I can stand on the train and hold multiple things and not fall over.
- I can even fall asleep on the train and wake up when it's my stop. (not an easy task)
- I have mastered the art of wrapping my entire face in a scarf, covering my ears and most of my head, but not my eyes.
- I can navigate E-Mart on a Sunday.
- I can walk past the drain outside my apartment without totally gagging at the stench wafting from it.
- Korean ramen is not only super cheap, but also super useful for clearing your nasal passageways.
This is only a sample really. There are dozens of things that I do now that I would never have though possible before. Things like wearing stripes and plaid together and being told I look good. Or walking for miles in heels, or wearing an ugly Korean jacket and liking it.
I think I would say that I am pretty comfortable in my surroundings by now. The internet has become my best friend and forums have become a second Bible to me. I can find almost anything out on forums. But, just because I am comfortable enough to walk down a street or order coffee, doesn't mean I miss home any less. But now I am beginning to see that it might be hard to leave this place too. I wish that all the people I have ever met, the good ones anyway, could all be collected in one place. With all the coolest parts of each place where I met them and we could form a new country that isn't missing anything. That would be really cool.
So there are only about six months left to go, for me anyway. I have the spring and summer to look forward to. I am excited about what that will bring. I miss being warm. I think that's the thing that is so appealing about living in a place with such an intense winter, it makes you appreciate warmth so much more. I like it when I walk outside and its only -1 instead of -20. The sun actually starts to feel warm... Its amazing.
I think that's the end for now. Happy Sabbath to all of you, wherever you are and whatever you are doing, I hope it is good and you are loving life.
~Michelle
Hi, Chelle,
ReplyDeleteAs always, I have enjoyed reading your blog.
I, too, am at my 6 month mark, actually as of February 1.
I think I might be able to understand a little bit what you are experiencing about learning new things. My experience has forced me to learn things I never would have if I had not been here, waiting, learning to trust God more with the unknown. He has shown me that I am not too old to learn new things, and that I can overcome my fears with His help.
Even though I am excited about leaving this place and moving on, to be with my family in the US, I am also going to be sad to leave behind my family that is in Oshawa. Saying good-bye is always difficult for me.
Someday we will have the chance to be in the most wonderful place of all, where all the cool people, all the people we love can be in the same place at the same time. The temperature will be perfect--not too hot or too cold. There will be no more pain, no more crying, no more aging, no more dying. No more good-byes.
I am looking forward to that day!
Thanks for inspiring me again with your blog.
I love you,
Mom
Michelle, Just wondering what you do with toilet paper if you never flush it. Just wondering. You have a very happy blessed Sabbath also.
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